8/7/2023 0 Comments Chastity findom captionWhat advice would you share for women exploring a Female Led Relationship? It is asserting control over him and showing him his place at the same time. I use them to arouse him, then deny him as I watch him become obsessed with them. Yes this is something a friend of mine told me as we first started dating, and I never knew to what extent it was with him. Your man seems to have a thing for feet, How have you used his fetish to your advantage? And where his thoughts and unruly behavior post release gets him. And I decided to have him see where he stands in this relationship. He was wanting to go for a run, yet his chores were not finished, he was talking with a little ego that bubbled up. It is something I believe most men deal with. Unfortunately he is a very difficult person, post sexual gratification. That picture I took was after a post sexual release for him. Can you expand on this scenario and what it means to you both? One of your tumblr pictures ( ) features your man kneeling behind you, reminding him of his position in the relationship. Plus he gets into a space where he stops worrying about his needs and really becomes very super submissive. And as he is more focused on me he becomes, the more I give him attention. The longer he is in chastity, the more serving, attentive, understanding, loving and committed to my needs above all else. How does his behaviour change after a prolonged period of chastity? It assures him that all things and behavior’s matter. Punishments enforces boundaries/ Rules set forth in our ever evolving relationship and lifestyle. It shows commitment to our values and lifestyle. But it is ownership over his sacred body part. ( I am glad it has turned out this way however) and wouldn’t want it any other way. Had he been able to make better judgements all those years he had control, then we wouldn’t have come to this situation in the first place. It reinforced the reminder that although something is attached to his body, it no longer belongs to him. And with chastity being mandated at all times. Chastity and punishment seem to be key pillars in your relationship, for those new to this topic, how do these elements work and how do they benefit you?Ĭhastity helps bring focus back to us. However I believe open communication with my sub about limits and how it fits in our relationship and our daily routines is paramount. Mainly because each relationship is different and what works for us may not work for you. I have tried a few books, websites and podcasts. What has been most useful in your education / learning about Female Led Relationships? Make sure you are committed to being loyal to this change before saying it to her, be careful what you wish for! Mistress and Tyler Meaning, start opening up conversations with her about yourself and thoughts. Time & Place is crucial!! It really is important to be honest but also have it built up too. What advice would you give to men considering approaching their partner to confess their porn or masturbation habits? But in our relationship, I was always nervous because of his past. I have found that in any group situations or employment I have had, I naturally became the leader after a very short period of time. Yes I am a natural at being in control and being bossy. Did you have any inklings towards Dominance before his confession? So I let him explain and I proceeded to process it all with caution. So I didn’t want to overly react either way too much and cause him to push away. This was a very delicate process and situation because of all his past traumas in his youth. Can you describe how you felt when he first expressed his desire for your control?Īt first I was nervous because it was something new to our relationship, And I was told all my life if I acted bossy and demanding I would never find a man to love. It seems your dynamic started via your partner pleading for help. Here, Mistress tells us about their dynamic: It all started when Tyler admitted to his wife that he had self control issues, then asked his wife if she would consider a Female Led Relationship. Thank you to Mistress and Tyler for sharing intimate details about their Female Led Relationship dynamic.
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